Welcome to Shady Dreams // "Loading..." //

Credits

Design MKdesign //
Hostest Blogger //
Template Blogskins //

Saturday, June 14, 2003::

As much as this quarel doesn't involve me. I still feel the need to post my true opinion. Ross that was pretty stupid. You never learn. I guess you always DID favor Russell more, huh? But as much as you've done to cause the distress it's not about you anymore. Right now I just want to make Sara happy. And to shut Russells foolhardy mouth up. In my opinion . . . Sara deserves better. Because she's a better person. And she can get better. It shouldn't be thought of as "1 1/2 years down the drain" because that just means you have more experience. Sara, don't let Russell "punish" you for what you did and technically you WERE on a break, sooo... And if you do get back together I wish you the best. But make sure that before you do there is complete forgivness. Because if he keeps bringing it uo later . . . that's going to account for a whole lot of mental distress. And i dunno, but from a lot of what I've read it seems to be an abusive relationship. Not physically, but mentally. It seems he's one of those people that will lure you in and capture you with their sweet remarks and tell you how much they love you and want to spend the rest of their life with you . . . but in turn are always angry and speak hatefully and "punish", threaten maybe even. But make it "all better" by saying how much they love you and want to spend the rest of their life with you and care about you and make compliments about you until in your mind you don't think you could get anyone better. No. It's a mentally abusive relationship and it's NOT COOL. Ross I see why you love him so much. I'm nto saying all those things in the negative side take place but if it causes distress in the same way then it's no good.

As much as insulting Sam may be releaving . . . It'll do no good.

---

"and if you liked her so much you wouldnt have kissed her you stupid fuck. because now im breaking up with her....she loves me...despite what she did. and whats past isnt past you fucking coward.

---

Kinda sounds like Russell is "punishing Sam by punishing Sara" and I kind of wish that Sara didn't love you. but that's my own private opinion.

Inside I do feel bad for Russell, he's probably very upset and sad over it (angry obviously as well), I just think he's handling it in a bad way. See, Ross? You and him aren't very different. You're both very critical too. Heh.

Tip that no one has to take but is a TIP anyway: Russell, if you're breaking up with Sara, don't bother her with guilt, she already has enough of it. And if you get back together with her don't evr bring it up again, because the past should be left in the past and it'll only effect your relationship more negativly.


That's my thoughts, not like anyone's reading it . . .

-: Amy Kelley blogged it up at 12:57 PM:-